Social Skills
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Is Your Teen Over Therapy? Why That’s Normal (and What Helps Instead)
Has your teenager basically downed tools on therapy? The occupational therapist, the psychologist, the speech therapist - appointments they used to go to without much fuss, and now they’re just… done. If that sounds familiar, take a breath. It’s completely normal - and it might even be a good sign.
How to Stop Info-Dumping in Conversations Without Hiding Your Interests
Does your teen love a topic so much they could talk about it for hours, but notice friends drifting away when they do? Here's how to share a passion without info dumping, and without hiding what they love.
School Can’t: Why Your Child Isn’t “Refusing” School (and How to Help)
Your child isn't being difficult. They're overwhelmed. Learn why School Can't is a stress response, not a choice, why it's rarely about one thing, and gentle ways to support your young person.
He's played soccer for seven years. Why hasn't he made a single friend there?
"He's been in the same soccer team since he was six. Seven years. And not one friend has come out of it with no invitations, no replies when he invites someone, nobody he ever sees outside of training. How is that even possible?"
Making friends as an adult is hard. Here's a way to actually get better at it.
"Everyone else seems to have their people already. I'm not really sure how you're meant to make friends as an adult, and honestly, it feels a bit late to be learning."
If that thought has crossed your mind, you're far from alone. I hear it constantly from people in their twenties, thirties, forties and beyond. Making friends as an adult is genuinely hard, and nobody really teaches you how. We're all just expected to have worked it out.
What Is the Double Empathy Problem in Autism? A Guide for Parents
What is the double empathy problem in autism? A plain-English guide for parents of autistic teens, with practical tips to ease everyday misunderstandings.
Our formula for friendship: Skills + Coaching + Access to Peers
People sometimes ask us what makes PEERS® different from other social skills programs. The honest answer is that we've never believed friendship comes down to any single thing. It comes from a combination - and we think of it as a simple formula:
Skills + Coaching + Access to Peers = Friendships
Why parents are part of the program: the role of the social coach
When families first look at a social skills program, most of the attention goes to the young person - understandably. But one of the biggest reasons PEERS® works isn't only about what happens in the young person's session. It's about who's helping them practise the rest of the week.
That person is the social coach.
Why explicit teaching makes the difference
People sometimes ask us what makes PEERS® different from other social skills programs. The honest answer is that we've never believed friendship comes down to any single thing. It comes from a combination - and we think of it as a simple formula:
Skills + Coaching + Access to Peers = Friendships
Celebrating a Five-Star Milestone: The Journey of Social Skills Australia
At Social Skills Australia, we’re celebrating a milestone that means a great deal to our team — we’ve achieved a perfect 5-star rating on Google! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Of course, seeing five stars beside our name is wonderful. But what makes this milestone truly special is what those five stars represent: the families who have trusted us, the participants who have taken part in our programs, and the people who have shared their experiences with us.
For us, it’s a reflection of the relationships we’ve built and the difference we’ve had the privilege of being part of.
What to Expect in the First 4 Weeks of a Social Skills Program
Thinking of starting a social skills program for your teen? Here's exactly what the first four weeks look like — the sessions, the skills, the homework, and what early progress really looks like.
How to Know if Your Teen Is Ready for Social Skills Training
Not sure if your teen is ready for a social skills program? Here are the real signs of readiness — why motivation matters most, and why teenage resistance isn't a dealbreaker.
Does Online Social Skills Training Actually Work? What the Research Says
Skeptical that social skills can be taught online? Here's what a UCLA study found about online vs in-person PEERS® — and why online can work even better for some teens.
10 Social Skills Your Teenager Should Have by Age 16 (A checklist for parents)
A simple checklist of 10 social skills most teens should have by age 16 — what they look like when they're missing, and how to help teens with autism or ADHD catch up.
Why Reputation Matters More Than Your Teen Thinks (And What To Do About It)
A bad reputation can close doors for teenagers before they even get started. Here is why reputation management matters and what young people can actually do about it.
Building Self-Esteem and Social Skills: A Neurodiversity-Affirming Guide
Did you know that 85% of autistic adults report that social challenges significantly impact their quality of life, while a 2024 study found that 40% of children with autism struggle with low self-worth? It's deeply painful to feel like a perpetual outsider or to carry the heavy weight of past social rejections. You deserve to move through the world without the constant, draining anxiety of "getting it wrong" in every conversation. We believe that building self-esteem and social skills isn't about "fixing" your personality; it's about providing the ecological validity and predictable frameworks you need to thrive as your authentic self.
Anxiety, Autism or ADHD? How to Tell What's Behind Your Teen's Social Struggles
Is your teen's social struggle caused by anxiety, autism, ADHD, or all three? Here is how to tell the difference and why regardless of diagnosis, the approach to building social skills is the same.
Nobody tells you about the Friday nights.
Nobody warns you about the Friday nights. If your teenager with autism is struggling to make friends, here's what's really going on, and what can actually help.
The PEERS Method: Why Evidence-Based Social Skills Training Works
Not all social skills programs are created equal. Here is what makes PEERS® different, what evidence-based actually means, and why it works when other approaches don't.
What Can Jazz Teach Us About Social Skills?
Jazz isn't just music, it's conversation. Discover how the structure of jazz mirrors the social skills we teach in PEERS®, and why those skills are learnable for every young person.